Finding The One

Attractive african man looking through binoculars
Looking for The One

How does one find what he/she is looking for? How do you know you’ve gotten what you’ve always wanted when your wants and desires change so frequently? Questions burning in your head about is one enough? Can you live with just one? When I find the one, how do I keep her happy?

Seems rather simple, but sometimes you have what you want, and you don’t even realize it. The small signs are there but you don’t realize that she’s that into you or you’re that into her. When she into you, she just want to be around you. Spend time in your space and look at you.Women are dope. When they are happy, they just bring good energy. The vibes they exude are everything to the soul and spirit of a man. The way she looks at you when you’re doing something you’re passionate about adds fuel to your efforts and the subtle encouragement of your accomplishments humbles you and makes you appreciate her even more. 

Finding a woman that is satisfied with the simplest of things makes you want to give her more. A phone call gets her excited, it makes you want to see her. Making a trip to see her gets her excited, it makes you want to take her places. Taking her places gets her excited, it makes you want to show her immaculate things. The pattern is crazy because she doesn’t really want or expect to get any of those things but she’s there for it when you deliver.

I like sending gifts to the one I love. It might be flowers, an edible arrangement, or a gift card to buy something that she really wants. Most of the time she’s not expecting it, but it always makes her day better. However when you do those things and the appreciation and expectation is diminished, then you wonder if she’s appreciative of your actions, or her agenda is greater than the gesture.

You never know who the one is, so treat the one you’re with like she’s the one. She might very well be.


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