Yesterday I got this question in my inbox. I have no idea how to answer it.
As an inquiring male, I have one question for you ladies who have taken on the lesbian status. I understand that being homosexual is your choice and I don’t knock you at all for it. However if you’re going to be a lesbian, why not just be a woman while doing it? Why do you cut your hair to a low fade like a man? Why do you start wearing saggy jeans, baseball cap and high top Jordan’s? Why do you start wearing sports bras to push your chest down and give the appearance of not having boobs? Why do some of you even go as far as starting to talk like a man? This is definitely not to bash anyone AT ALL!!! My question is “Why not just get a Man if you dating a girl that looks like a man?? Is it the emotional attachment?? What is it??? Serious question!!!”
I don’t know the person who sent it but I guess they have been questioning things themselves. I can’t speak for anyone who is a lesbian because it’s not my place. I personally know women who are lesbians who are very beautiful women and embrace it. I also know women who are lesbians who have taken on the persona of males but are still confident in their choice. Most of what he’s stating is stereotype in my opinion, but he does raise some interesting points but as I mentioned I’m not qualified or certified to respond because it’s out of my area of expertise.
I was super hesitant to put this up because of the backlash I’m sure it will get, but there may be others out there who are wondering the same thing and would like to hear an answer. I’m also sure there are women out there who may feel the same way about men.
Any thoughts on this?